Ever since I was a teenager I would fantasize about finding the love of my life and being in an outstanding relationship that would transcend all the drama and pain associated with most relationships. Deep inside my heart I knew that such a relationship existed out there for me, I only had to find the ONE.
Throughout the voyage of love there were many times where I thought I had found the one, only to end up with a broken heart. The pain that resulted from each relationship only fueled my passion to meet my true beloved and I never lost hope.
However, after many years of trial and error it dawned on me that something had to change, to be more precise something WITHIN ME had to change. Otherwise I would continue to attract the same type of dysfunctional relationships.
Transcending Karmic Relationships
After what seemed like an endless streak of karmic relationships I decided to step back and go within. For 3 consecutive years I diligently and relentlessly worked on myself to clear and transcend my relationship karmic slate. The ultimate goal was to attract the ONE and be in a relationship with this person for the rest of my life.
My past relationships were ruled by drama, co-dependency and lots of pain. And through the process of unwinding my relationship baggage I uncovered a series of energetic blockages that were keeping me stuck in a low frequency relationship karmic loop.
With absolute determination I embarked on a soul journey to clear myself from all these blockages. With each transmutation I became lighter and my frequency higher.
The Day I Felt Ready
While I was working on myself I was so committed to this process that I had absolute certainty I wasn’t ready for a relationship.
Then one day of all of a sudden I felt READY to meet the ONE.
It was an indescribable feeling, but within that feeling was the notion that our time to meet was getting closer and I only had to follow the guidance from my Higher Self and take the necessary action to make this happen.
I had never felt so certain in my life, despite having no tangible evidence of who this person was or even if they really existed.
Manifestations In Motion
One of the guidances I received from my Higher Self was to write down and perform a series of manifestations. The intuition was to take the following intents and do manifestations for each one:
- The values and principles that this person and our relationship would embody.
- The higher giving love that was to be created and shared.
- The ability to grow and evolve together.
After doing these manifestations I felt guided to attend a holistic healing expo in my local city at the time. I decided to go there by myself and as I wondered through the expo I picked up the schedule for a number of key speakers who would be presenting their work that day . There had to be more than 20 different lectures given by international experts from a wide range of fields.
There was one lecture that caught my attention, it was about Tantra. But to be honest when it comes to sexual mastery and tantra I’m extremely selective from whom I choose to study and learn since the field is filled with mediocre “experts”.
Anyway, I felt a strong intuition to attend this tantric lecture and I decided to follow that.
I Saw Her For The First Time
There I was sitting at this introductory tantric lecture and so far it was OK. Then the teacher asked the audience if there was a volunteer who would come up so that he could demonstrate a visualization and a healing technique.
Many people raised their hands, the teacher scanned the room and he chose one person to meet him at the stage. And that was the first time I saw Jenn, to say the least I was captivated by the her presence. She had a magnetic aura that consumed all my attention. I was mesmerized with her existence.
But then the demonstration ended and so did the lecture. However, just before the lecturer was about to finish he announced a more advanced tantric class that would take place the following Friday night. I thought to myself “That’s not for me.”
And as I was walking out of the room someone handed me a flyer that had the time and date of the upcoming tantric workshop. Not thinking too much about it I folded the flyer and put it in my pocket. By now Jenn had evaporated through the crowd and shortly after she was out of my mind.
The Ultimate Manifestation To Meet The ONE
When I got home as a matter of habit I started to empty my pockets. For some reason the flyer from the tantric workshop sent a shiver up my spine and I received a clear message through direct cognition that said “Go to the workshop and you will meet your beloved. Do a manifestation and she will be there.”
Immediately I grabbed my manifestation journal and started writing down what would be the most incredible and powerful manifestation of my life!
I wrote down when and where we would meet, how we would start a conversation and how she would give me her contact information.
Tantric Friday
Finally Friday night came and I drove to the yoga studio in which the workshop was to be hosted. For some reason I was really calm despite the fact that I knew I was just minutes away from meeting the love of my life.
Throughout my life I had been a person full of doubt, but this night I was embodying a state of absolute certainty.
Punctuality is something that was ingrained in me by my father and often times I tend to be early rather than on time. This day was no different, I arrived early to the tantra workshop. From the moment I arrived I was scanning the room, seeking for my beloved but she wasn’t there.
Fortunately the workshop hadn’t started and my certainty was still intact. But then the time to start the workshop had arrived and she was nowhere to be found.
I said to myself “It is what it is. I’m here so I might as well enjoy this workshop.”
Then 15 minutes in late comes in this gorgeous girl through the door. She is in a hurry, scrambling to find the entrance fee in her purse.
The instant I saw her I knew she was the ONE. I knew that the person I was seeing just now would be my future wife, my lifelong companion and the mother of “my” children.
Time To Play It Cool
Of course I didn’t ran to her and yelled “You are the ONE and we are meant to be together!” Instead I kept it cool and surrendered to my Higher Self. The manifestation had been done and now I had to watch the magic unfold.
After 45 minutes in, the workshop host said it was time to take a break. Before I could stand up Jenn had approached me. She spoke to me in English (we both are Spanish native speakers) because she thought I was a foreigner. In her mind there was no way that a young Puerto Rican guy would be spending a Friday night on a yoga studio instead of going out to get party and get drunk.
To her surprise I replied back in Spanish and we started talking. Imagine how I felt looking at her knowing that she was the ONE. But like I said, I kept it cool and casual.
Then the workshop resumed and we both went back to our seats. I had never wanted a workshop to end so bad 🙂
Finally the workshop came to a conclusion and this time I was the one who approached Jenn. I don’t remember exactly what we talked about but she took out a pen and a piece of paper and wrote down her email.
I thought to myself “Your email? I should have been more specific in my manifestation about what type of contact information I was to receive!” But I wasn’t deterred, I had a way to communicate with her.
And so I did, I wrote her a few emails. Then she found me through Facebook and we started messaging. Finally I sent her a message that said “This is my phone number, call me.” It was a bold move on my part but I was done with the text messages 🙂
Sure enough, shortly after I get a call from Jenn. Long story short we talked and I offered her a free private session. At the time I had a space where I would meet clients to do one on one sessions. And once again I was playing it cool facilitating her session and by the end of the session she offered to give me a free private yoga class.
Of course I took upon her offer and after she gave me the yoga class I finally asked her if she wanted to have dinner with me.
When I Decided To Show Her My Manifestations
After a few months of dating I felt confident enough to show her the manifestations I had done prior to meeting her. She was in awe of the specifics and the details of the manifestations. She couldn’t believe I knew the time and place were we would meet.
Then she proceeded to tell me her side of the story. It turns out that before attending the tantra lecture at the holistic healing expo she had attended a lecture about manifestation and the lecturer had selected her from the crowd to demonstrate a manifestation technique.
When the lecturer asked her “So, what’s your intent?” she told him “I would like to attract and be in a relationship with the ONE!”
And shortly after she did that manifestation we were both in the same room. Little did we know that we would be meeting again the following Friday on a yoga studio while learning about Tantra.
Our Love Story Continues
This was 8 years ago. Today we are happily married and parents to a magical child. To this day I still continue to do manifestations for our relationship and so far ALL of them have become a reality!
Both Jenn and I agree that when we met the FEELING we had towards one another was COMPLETELY DIFFERENT from all the previous relationships we had.
This wasn’t a karmic relationship, instead it was a Higher Loving Relationship. Tomorrow, my next blog post will explore the difference between karmic relationships and higher loving relationships.
If you desire to manifest the ONE, knowing the difference between these two types of relationships is crucial.
P.S.: the night that we first kissed I took her to eat a vegetarian paella and drink sangria. Little did I know that this was a foreshadowing of where would we end up living six years later (we currently live in Spain).
P.P.S: here is a video we did 6 years ago telling the story of how we met: